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How To Deal With Haters And Jealous People In Your Life

I want to help you learn how to deal with haters and jealous people. Sometimes, people can feel a certain way about you without you influencing their decision. They may not know you. They may only see that they don’t like you.


Either way, it does not matter. I am here to encourage you and let you know a secret. If you are doing life right, you will always have people who hate you, are jealous, or misunderstand you. These things are just a part of life.


If you are doing life well, unhappy people will envy you. Not everyone works hard to find happiness or fulfillment in life. These people are choosing to look down on others for their satisfaction. Later on in this article, I will tell you why this is.


Hating people is a form of flattery. People hate or are jealous of you based on what they hope to obtain or what they think they should have. I want you to know that there is a surplus in the world. There is no reason to be jealous of anyone.


We can learn much from each other and our journeys. What if someone is a millionaire, and this is your personal goal? Instead of being upset that they have more money. Why not ask them for advice to see how they made it?


Sometimes, we take the wrong approach—people who are busy creating the life they want don’t have time to hate others. I have learned that if you strive to achieve your goals. You do not have time to worry about others or put others down. 


People who are doing less than you are the ones who usually criticize you. I am always amazed when I am online and see people leave personal opinions about someone famous. If it is not favorable, I try not to give my opinion.


I sometimes try to help people, but only if they ask for help. People who have time to bully on the internet are not being productive with their time. Busy working people don’t have time to worry about the next person.

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How to Deal with Haters and Jealous People While Remaining Positive.


Suppose you are anyone who considers yourself a dreamer or a visionary. People can often say things to bring you down, even if you are someone whom God anoints to do something. People will tell you that what you think or do is incorrect.


First, you want to understand who you are and what you want to do. In this case, no one can tell or lead you astray from your vision and goals. They may get you down, but I want you to bounce back if this is the case.

You have to know that no one can stop you from succeeding but you. If your mindset is strong you can achieve anything you can possibly believe. This is why the bi le tells us to renew our minds because the bible teaches you the correct mindset.


Secondly, only take advice from people on your same level or wise enough to advise you. Remember, I said most people who criticize you have not done what you have. For example, someone in debt can fault you for being debt-free. Only one of these people struggled to maintain a lifestyle that is out of the norm.


No matter what you accomplish, always evaluate who is giving you advice and why they are suggesting such advice. Lastly, do not try to convince anyone what they should think about you.


The best thing to do is to let people believe what they want about you. The only opinion of your character is God’s opinion of you.  Let God’s voice lead you and who you should be and shouldn’t. 


Tips To Deal With Jealous People


Here are some tips to help you deal with jealous people and haters. Use Criticism as the driving fuel for your destination. People will always tell you what you can’t do. Step back and show them you can do it regardless of their thoughts.


“You can also use it as a compliment to know you are on the right path. You can just be kind to them and ignore them. Your kindness for people will cover the wrongs they make. Sometimes, people have learned lousy behavior because they haven’t experienced true love.


The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:4, “Love is patient, love is kind, it isn’t jealous, it doesn’t brag, it isn’t arrogant.” If someone is showing you this type of behavior, they cannot show you the love you need at the moment. Lastly, remember that successful people do not fear others who may be on a higher level than them.

When I first started social media, my biggest fears were about people. What will people think? What will they say? God took me through a season of not caring what people think.


To set me free from the fear of men. Now, when I post videos, it’s easy to tell who means well and who doesn’t; my responses to comments are based on those things.


God doesn’t want us to live in fear of other people. He wants you to be accessible to be yourself. I hope this article helps you when people are talking down to you. Let this article be recalled in your brain when someone says you can’t do something. Dont Let the Jealousy of others hold you back or keep you down.


May you succeed in all your endeavors, and if someone tries to put you down. If you are looking for more guidance, you are ready to step out and massively change your life. Check out our Jumpstart Your Legacy Guide.


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